Now, before we get into a very revealing article, I have to ask ‘So you know what a Fuck boy is? ‘ If you do then you are ready for the article but if you don’t know then you have to.
A Fuck boy is someone who is on a vile mission to sleep with any girl he sets his eyes and lust on, without any emotional attachment to them; regardless of how that can hurt the lady or ladies in question. That is my definition of a fuck boy and in the words of Biggie the hiphop legend, ”I don’t know, now you know.”
You know, throughout time we have always had these kinds of individuals parading from one unsuspecting lady to another, leaving broken hearts their wake. But nowadays, it seems as if there is an epidemic of fuck boys in town. They aren’t that hard to recognize, they are all the same, though they may be in different careers and cities. Their mindset and actions make them one.
And their actions bring nothing but pain to their victims and the victim’s friends and family. But I didn’t write this article to rant about their bad behavior. I am only writing this article to warn you of such men. If you get to recognize any of them, I would advise that you leave as soon as possible to avoid needless pain and suffering.
To avoid such unnecessary problems, these are the six signs that you are with a fuck boy who doesn’t care about you.
1. He says that he loves you and disappears after he sleeps with you
This is one is the most vivid of all signs of terrible people. The fuck boy is all for himself and would only do whatever it takes to get what he wants. When he tells you that he loves you, he is only telling you exactly what he wants you to hear. Once he has gotten what he wants from you, then he would pitch his tent elsewhere. But before then, he would tell you all sort of sweet nonsense to make you believe that he is in love with you. It isn’t strange to see some of them even go as far as to claim that they are their soulmates. He is very good at selling a dream, but girls fail to realize that although he is a good salesman, all he sells is a dream. They would fall for the facade, and when the mask slips off his face, they are shocked at the monster they let into their own lives. You have to avoid the fuck boys sweet candy talk. He would show you around the castle he has built for the two of you – only for you to realize that all that was built in the air.
2. He doesn’t know how to listen to you
When you get to be with a fuck boy, you will notice some things immediately, he is a bad or poor communicator. He can hold meaningful conversations and whenever he talks it always has to do with him. And this is because that is who he is. He is a selfish asshole who doesn’t know how to be empathetic towards others. He doesn’t care about you or your story. Whenever he opens his mouth all you hear is his vain talk about his successful career or how he is very desirable to women and how great he is.
If you can’t stand such kind of self-promotion and vain babble, then you should leave such a person. Nothing’s going to change with such a person. The fuck boy isn’t concerned about building any worthwhile relationship with you; he is only concerned with himself and what he can get from you. Such a terrible human doesn’t deserve you, and you should know that if you know your worth.
3. He asks you to do things for him before you even get to know him
Another sign that indicates you are with a fuck boy is that they get very demanding very quickly. You guys have barely met and all of a sudden they are telling you how to live your life.
They are also known to demand sex right after meeting you. It may not be outright, but it could also be subtle too. You feel as if you are almost being forced to have sex with such a person. A fuck boy is known to use all sorts of manipulation to get what he wants, he would guilt you into giving in to him, or he would try to intimidate you into sleeping with him. For him, that is normal because that is all he sees as a relationship with someone. For the fuck boy, he doesn’t know what it means to have deep and reasonable relationships with people. Instead, all he knows how to do is to take. And so when you understand the fuck boy at this level, it won’t surprise you to see him act that way around you.
4. His friends don’t have a clue about you
A guy who is into a lady would let his friends know about her. If you are a valuable part of his life then, at the very least, his friends would know about you and with time – his family members too. But when you find out that your date’s friends don’t have a clue of your existence, yet your partner keeps saying that you are the world to him, something is seriously not right and there is every indication that you are with a fuck boy. Come to think of it, if he is into many girls at the same time or in a short period, then it makes sense not to let your friends know anything about them rather then go through the trouble of having to introduce every single one of your girlfriends. That would be unnecessary work that would all be in vain since your friendship to these girls only last enough for you to get into their pants.
If your partner doesn’t mention introducing you to his friends, it is probably true that he just doesn’t care about you. Cleanse yourself of all the candy talk he gives you and instead focus on leaving him immediately.
5. He never posts photos of you being together on social media
This is some continuation from the last point or sign that was previously discussed. But the is also a very vivid sign that your boyfriend isn’t willing to make your relationship with him public. In our world today, a lot of the player’s game is being played in the private messaging apps, and I’m social media sites. Your status or profile bears some information about your life. Letting people know that you have a boyfriend or girlfriend online is one way of discouraging any advances made on you. But for the fuck boy, having his social media profiles indicate that he is in a relationship with you could be bad business for his playboy games. So he would rather not have anything on his social media posts or profile hint of a relationship with anybody; including you. You have to be very aware of that, and you have to take appropriate action when you can’t find any good reason to back his behavior.
6. He always has those fucking excuses
Now, life happens; we get it, but for a fuck boy, life happens every time. For him there is always a reason for his misbehaviors. He would cheat and deny it until there is more than enough evidence to show that he did it. And even when he is caught, would try to wriggle his way out if it. You have to avoid his candy talk. Once you notice most or all of these signs in your relationship, please leave for your own good.