Someone said “As I began to love myself, my relationship with everyone changed.”
And as the quote above says we do begin to look at things differently when we accept ourselves for who we are. And when we combine that with a goal that best suits our personality we become unstoppable. At this point, all you are focused on is trying to get to whatever target it is that you want in life.
This is the best place to be as a human; it is as though you are in some type of flow or define consciousness. You don’t get upset over other people’s opinions about your goals and how you go about achieving them. And I say the pursuit of goals as a definition of living life because that is the best way to live life. You should have a purpose driven life for you to be a happy and fulfilled person. This was reiterated by an intelligent man who once said that if you want to live a happy life, then you should attach your life to a goal.
Now, being in the state of mind that allows you to focus entirely on the improvement of your life – and by that, I mean where you end up living, who you choose to be with and what it is you have committed most of your energy into doing. Not being bothered by what the public thinks of you but instead being at peace with yourself.
When you are in natural sync with your soul, you become unstoppable as you are not held back by expectations or similar weights.
When it comes to having expectations and similar attachments weighing you down, you have to understand that these things are real. And when you let them into your life, you end up being held back from getting to your highest potential. You become vulnerable to outside pressures such as those that come from your friends and family and society as a whole, and then other non-human factors that get in the way of you achieving your goal.
You have to turn your mindset and mentality around. You have to push yourself to the limit to see what you are made of. You have to face those insecurities that you have that have been playing games on your psyche. Set goals but at the same time understand that the ultimate goal in life is to live. And living is 99% being in the trenches, being in the process of achieving those goals you set for yourselves. You have to be in the game for the love of the game and not just the end goal. And when you play that way, you will find out that every single obstacle that comes your way is just another stepping stone to the next level of your journey. And it is at this point that you become truly unstoppable as the hindrances are what motivate you and not the price. The process becomes the highest motivating factor and not the prize.
Alright, enough of the talk already. Let us get to the 6 points that show that you are going to this level of awareness.
(1) You have realized your self-worth:
When you begin to understand yourself then believe you me, you have something going. It is like getting some electronic device, and you don’t yet understand how to use it. There is very little chance that you would use it well and until you read the manual to the electronic device, it would be almost impossible to make the best use of the device.
The same goes for you as a human being. You can’t just jump into the game of life without first understanding who you are. You won’t maximize your full potential, and you could end up getting frustrated as you may not succeed in life.
A major step to understanding yourself is to realize that you are special. Now, this isn’t some rare motivational rant here; this is fact. The chemical arrangement and composition that make up your physical body and your consciousness or brain will never be repeated in the universe again. Your ideas will be unique to you in some way or the other. And so will be your contribution to the world and humanity as a whole.
When you understand that you will be willing to ignore whatever is the current fad and instead focus on discovering yourself. And when you do get introduced to you, you will then enter the game of life, armed with the manual of you and knowledge of what best suits you.
“Strong people have a strong sense of self-worth and self-awareness; they don’t need the approval of others.” ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart.
(2) You focus on the thing you can control and leave the things you can’t:
Another sign that shows that you have become unstoppable is that you don’t worry about things or circumstances that are genuinely out if your control.
You understand that only you can control the way you react to situations or people around you – whether it be tough times or family members and friends. You understand that you can’t control the behaviors of other people but can change the way you behave.
That helps you focus only on things that matter and not frivolities. You stop to wishing how it could be better and start to actively become that which you wish for.
You begin to focus on self-development and becoming the best version of yourself. Letting go of all forms of attachments, and feeble sentiments that can hold you back.
“Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free.
(3) You love yourself:
This has so many benefits than you can possibly imagine. When you get to that space where you truly take full ownership of your life, you begin to fall in love with yourself. And when I say love yourself I don’t mean love what you are going to become but instead who you are now. And don’t also mistake loving yourself for loving the bad mistakes you have made, it means getting to accept the good and bad about you.
When you get to this point, then you will watch your insecurities become strengths, and then you become very comfortable with yourself. You won’t be upset by the possibility of being left alone during tough times. Instead, you would be comforted by the fact that you have got you and you would eventually pull through.
“The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.” ― C. JoyBell C.
(4) You live life fearlessly:
When you begin to become comfortable with putting yourself in uncomfortable situations for the benefit of personal growth, then you know that you are well on your way to becoming unstoppable.
When it comes to putting yourself in uncomfortable situations all for personal growth, we are talking about things like facing your fears. When you are willing to deal with your fears, then you are revealing a whole new powerful self to you.
It could also mean raising your standards of performance. And when you are doing so you are becoming a better version of yourself. You are training your mind and body to withstand the pressure and pain that is necessary to turn you into a diamond – hardened by a steadily growing discipline and polished by the numerous frictions of challenges.
This process of facing your fears can be very risky, and yet you do it. That is the definition of being brave.
“To me, Fearless is not the absence of fear. It’s not being completely unafraid. To me, Fearless is having fears. Fearless is having doubts. Lots of them. To me, Fearless is living in spite of those things that scare you to death.” ― Taylor Swift.
(5) You forgive:
You may be surprised by this, but I can assure you that this is definitely a sign that shows that someone is on his/her way to success. See, the pain and anger that come from people hurting us can be very hard to deal with – especially if that person in question was someone we trusted and loved at one point in time.
And then all of a sudden someone tells you just to forgive them. I mean, you are still hurting, and many times the person who hurt you hasn’t even taken responsibility for his/her actions.
Look, I get it. They truly don’t deserve a forgiveness. But you have to understand that you have to forgive them for you. You have to forgive them so that you can let go of the pain and suffering that comes with the evil they did to you.
Forgiving them is saying that they have no control over the way you feel about what they did to you. Forgiving them means moving on with a lesson or two about the painful incident. You have to understand that this is all to your advantage. The pain and anger if left to fester in you, will eventually come back around to destroy you.
You have to also take full ownership of your life. You have to stop depending on people for what you want or how you feel about yourself. Focus on self-development and improvement, and you will see the great difference in the quality of your life.
“To err is human, to forgive, divine.” ― Alexander Pope, An Essay on Criticism.
(6) You live your life on the edge:
This is the last but not the least of the all the signs. Look, when you come to think of it someone who you envision to be unstoppable would be someone who isn’t afraid of getting to the very boundaries of the known in other to explore the unknown. Someone who is very comfortable living his/her life on the edge. Someone who isn’t afraid to experiment and fail.
You aren’t worried about social norms that often act as a restriction to whatever it is that you are trying to get.
And so you leap into the unknown in search of your goals. Taking great chances at becoming what it is that you want to be. This sort of behavior automatically makes you a leader as you are doing the opposite of what many people would do.
People would look up to you and would learn from your brave actions. They would then emulate you, and thus you would become a leader who creates other leaders. And this creates a ripple effect all over the place.
“Dance. Smile. Giggle. Marvel. TRUST. HOPE. LOVE. WISH. BELIEVE. Most of all, enjoy every moment of the journey, and appreciate where you are at this moment instead of always focusing on how far you have to go.” ― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass.